Wanted: Pilgrim Captain and Women to Ask Directions
- Good Morning! I am Nancy Bacon and the Youth and Young
Adults Director at our church. It is a pleasure to come and share with
you some thoughts I’ve encountered while attending camp, and two
conferences: one on faith and sustainability and the other on church
vitality.
This is our first Sunday in Lent, a time we journey with Jesus into the wilderness, just before he begins his ministry.
Things were a little different back then. He didn’t exactly
submit a resume and await a call from a congregation, hoping to match
their diligently prepared 45 page profile…Instead he went into the
wilderness to prepare himself for wherever he was called.
Our skit today took us into a camping wilderness to help prepare
us to listen for where we are called. I’d like to take you into
another wilderness, this one aboard a ship, much like our Pilgrim
ancestors boarding the Mayflower and setting sail for some unknown
place.
I often think of our congregation like a ship. Some of us are
sails and others are anchors; some seeking change and eager to put out
to sea; others content with tradition and comfortable staying in port.
Of course, any good ship needs both – sails and anchors.
I had the pleasure of being with 95 junior high youth at Pilgrim
Pines Camp, a big increase from the number that was there last year.
It was exhilarating to hear them all singing, “Yes Lord, Yes Lord, Yes
Yes Lord” and “I am NOTHING, without You.” The sails were so FULL – we
were Sailing!
Coming back to our church, the sails are not so full. Sometimes
it seems there’s little air in them at all. Have they been torn? Is
there no wind? Are we too well anchored? Is our ship in trouble?
Currently, we have no Reverend Captain, our boat’s been doing some rocking, and we’re not sure which direction we will go.
When the Israelites were wondering in the wilderness, there’s a
joke that says at year 39½ Mrs. Moses secretly asked someone for
directions.
We know that during their days in the wilderness, Moses also left
his leadership position to be with God on Mt. Sinai. The people became
restless, saying to Moses’ brother, Aaron, “Come, make gods for us, who
shall go before us; as for this Moses, the man who brought us up out of
the land of Egypt, we do not know what has become of him.” So they
melted their gold rings and earrings (their “bling”) and made a golden
calf to worship. (PUT UP GOLDEN CALF)
It is easy to turn away from God and fill that void with the
worship of idols. Our church is set within our country’s context, and
it too is seeking a new leader. Both political parties claim that
expanding our economy is vital for our continued success as a nation. There are many false prophets proclaiming that consumerism can save us;
make us happy. We can have it all.
There are no political saviors.
Listen for the words of the REAL Savior in the wilderness:
...the devil took him to a very high mountain and showed him all the
kingdoms of the world and their splendor and he said to him, "All these
I will give you, if you will fall down and worship me." Jesus said to
him, "Away with you Satan! For it is written, 'Worship the Lord your
God, and serve only him.'"
I love the blessings that surround me, however, the ways of the
world, and of country, are sometimes inconsistent with the ways of
God. Church is where we come to hear God’s frequently out of favor
voice.
Creator God has given us one planet and about 6½ billion brothers
and sisters. We all crave a world of peace, but peace is built on
justice. If all of my brothers and sisters were to consume as much as
I do, we would need about 23 more planet Earths to provide the
resources, and I’m pretty average. It’s like getting in the potluck
line first and taking what I want without regard to those in line
behind me.
Imagine Parent God giving one candy bar to two people to split. If we’re able to get to the candy first, do you think God wants us to
take the larger half? Certainly any loving parent wants to see us
strong and successful, but also to look out for our siblings. We need
to be careful of using precious terms like “freedom” to justify simple
greed. Our Loving Parent doesn’t have favorites. In the Gospel of
Matthew, Jesus describes how the Lord will judge nations, saying,
“Truly I tell you, just as you did it to one of the least of these, you
did it to me.”
After leaving the devil and the wilderness, Jesus began to call
his disciples, saying, “Follow me, and I will make you fish for
people.” Immediately they let go of everything, left their nets and
followed him.
Back on board our ship, we’re perplexed by this fishing for people
business. We know we are not a church comfortable with evangelism. We
also know we are a rather old church. More than 100 years old! Some
have called our ship “a church of old people.” Yet, God seems to have
quite a sense of humor.
When Abraham was 100 and Sarah 90, God informed them that they
would bear a son, and have descendents as numerous as the stars in the
heavens. Sarah laughed to herself, and Abraham fell on his face
laughing.
I remember when Steve and I had wanted to have a baby. We tried
for years, knowing we’d agreed to give up at my 40th birthday. Two
months before my 40th birthday I became pregnant – we couldn’t explain
it – and we can’t explain why she was born on her Daddy’s birthday.
Miracles happen. This church has much to offer. We are
amazingly strong in mission work, helping with the Homeless Shelter,
rebuilding from Katrina, getting kids on the bus to visit their moms in
prison, promoting fair trade, help for refugees; we should be pleased
with what we all do together, but the winds of the world blow loud and
strong and we must stay close to hear God’s voice. We are not called
to plot our own course, we are called to follow and to fish.
How many of you want to be fishers of men, women, teens and children?
Tell the truth, you’re in church.
I’m embarrassed to admit that I’ve been fishing with a periscope
and blinders on. I’m from Minnesota, the land of 10,000 lakes. Fishing was our primary sport. This time of year if the fish weren’t
biting, we’d wonder over to someone else’s ice house and ask them if
they were having any luck, and what kind of bait they were using. I
guess I’ve been acting as a scout for our church attending conferences
to see what successful ships and fishers are doing. What I have been
consistently told is that the place to begin outreach and growth is in
our own back yard pond.
In the 1950s churches were built in a neighborhood and it was
expected that people would come. Not so, anymore. We, like every
other church in existence, believe we are a “friendly” church. If
people make it inside our sanctuary we attempt to welcome them.
Yet there are 100s of families who step onto our property every
week, who never come inside the sanctuary and we do not see them. Our
extravagant UCC welcome has not been present. How many of you, like
myself, don’t know the staff at Child Haven? Or the preschool parents,
boy scouts, our janitors, or our neighbors?
Tell the truth. You’re in church.
Would any of these people know anything about our church? Would
they tell others about how friendly and welcoming we are? Have we
asked what we could do to serve them better, or have we been more
concerned with whether they serve us? Are we stuck with anchors down
believing it is us and them? Do we only serve people far from our
church, not the strangers among us who God has placed in plain site?
Growing churches focus on serving those close at hand, welcoming
diversity, and making strangers feel comfortable. This takes some time
and effort.
Steve and I have three stray cats that have just started coming
into our backyard at home. Steve has asthma and doesn’t care much for
having these cats get too friendly with us. I on the other hand love
cats and both of our family pets have recently died. We both
absolutely know as professionals in psychology that couples should
never under-mine each other and we stick to that, except with the
cats. We laugh about it, but Steve chases them off, while I put out
milk, food, and water. So far he’s winning. I haven’t been able to
get them to trust me, maybe they belong somewhere else.
I think it’s not so different welcoming strangers to our church.
It takes time to get them to trust us. Strangers may be a danger or
mess up our stuff. We know our church neighborhood is not the best. But the home I grew up in is worth less than $10,000. I am one of them
from the other side of the fence. Maybe we all have been at some time
or other.
For the first ten years I attended this church I believed there
was little we could do to attract people of color. Though my previous
UCC was multi-cultural and filled with children and youth, it seemed
that this church was destined to be mostly white and mostly old. I
believed trying to become more multi-cultural was a sideline issue. I
now believe it is our core obstacle to increasing our vitality. We may
believe that others would never want to belong here. After all, we
know if you’re born Catholic, or Baptist, you stick with it for life.
I’m curious, is there anyone here who hasn’t been Congregational their
whole life, besides me?
In therapy we have some common sayings, like “Can’t is a swear
word,” replacing it with “I will or I won’t” reach out to people of
color, those who speak differently, or those who are poor or young –
those not like us. Anyone who has studied genetics knows that
increasing diversity adds vitality and strength to any tribe.
I hope you’ll bear with me for one more story. Once, Steve and I
were hopelessly lost in an old part of Kyoto, Japan, where nobody spoke
English. Eventually we ran into a Buddhist monk and we asked him if he
could speak English. He smiled and said, “I Love You.” I said, “I
love you, too.” It turns out he didn’t know much English at all, but
we became his guests for the afternoon. It was wonderful. He shared a
tea ceremony with us and gave us a tour of his temple. Hours later, he
took us into the most sacred part of the temple, spread incense around
us and noticed our hesitant confusion. Then he said his second
sentence of English, “Relax. There’s only one God.” He did a ceremony
to bless our marriage and upon our leaving, we learned his only other
English sentence, “Remember, wherever you go, Buddha watching you.”
Oh to be as generous as this monk, greeting strangers with words of love and sharing such hospitality.
Now we are preparing to cut lose of the preschool “ballast” we
believe is bringing our ship down. This may be a great financial
decision, but I regret not having put down my periscope sooner.
Our ship is certainly not lost. We have had a Captain with us
always, a direction manual, and fortunately plenty of women to ask for
directions.
Let us be joyful, active crew members reporting for duty in solidarity. Please pray with me.
Holy Parent, let me not rely on my own wisdom or that of the
marketplace. Help me see my siblings up close and those at a
distance. Be my vision. Let us together boldly go where you call us,
bearing your light to all. Anchors Away into lent! All hands and
hearts on deck. God speed. Amen.
5 Real Road (corner of Stockdale & Real)
Bakersfield, CA 93309
Phone: 661-327-1609
FAX: 661-327-4443
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